OK, there is a reason why we have babies and puppies when we're younger. When I was in my 20's I had some patience (not really but in my memory of them I do) and that has quickly dissipated over time. And Reuben James has been testing what little patience I have left. Maybe it is his unselfish attempt to make me feel young again, but man, I am feeling old!
Why didn't any of you remind me of all of the work? And the constant surveillance to make sure he hasn't eaten/swallowed/destroyed something poisonous/dangerous/valuable is overwhelming. And the teeth. OK, why didn't anyone do an intervention with me and remind me of that one major factor?
I do understand he is a baby and the world is wide open to him and everything is exciting. And I get that these chubby white legs walking across the room could maybe look enticing enough to have to check out. But attacking them like they are breakfast, lunch and dinner is getting to be a bit much.
We are in Puppy Classes. John Brown is a great trainer and we're learning a lot but Reuben did spend some time in time out last week. I, of course, felt like the bully's mom. And my friend and vet Gary Thompson said Reuben is a great boy but I must be going through a big adjustment after having such a laid back, obedient dog. You betcha baby!
Roland is doing really well with him. In spite of the fact he's never raised a puppy - Jack was his experience with dogs - he's so patient with him and enjoying Reuben. Makes me feel like the grumpy old lady. I'd say if the shoe fits, but Reuben likes my shoes and I have to hide them all.
But then we take a walk. Reuben is fascinated by all the smells, treasures and sticks he finds. We walk out back almost every day and watching him discover things I overlook makes me stop and realize that I'm letting the little things pass me by. We have a pond in the field next to us and Reuben is mesmerized by the geese flying overhead and the noise. He will stop walking and doing his puppy ADD to look up and watch.
He is going to be a great farm boy. Critters, noises, mud and funky smells seem to be exciting to him and not scary at all. I've just got to live through these days - and remember the baseball gloves, eyeglasses, toys, and foot boards that sacrificed their lives so Jack could get through his puppy days.
The real test will be to see how he does with mice . .. .
What a cute, sweet baby. I admire your desire to start over with a puppy and a Lab to boot! Too energetic for me! I made sure my last dog from the HS was older like me. We take naps together!!!
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DeleteI love labs and their take on life. And getting Reuben from a rescue was important to me. I just think I need a little more Fangboner Farms wine to rescue me!
Jan, would have loved to comment about Jack but just couldn't. Teary-eyed thinking about him and that makes me think about my boy Angus. Been 10 years and I still get weepy talking about him. I love that you have a new little one to occupy your mind and heart. Nothing like a new puppy to keep you from wallowing. Teagun did that for me if you remember. They have a wonderful way of keeping you in the present. I absolutely LOVE my Teagun but there will never be another Angus. Though, Teagun is the right dog at the right time. He is so good with Rylee and she absolutely adores him. Enjoy Reuben and his crazy puppy antics. Give him a big squeeze for me! Ansley
ReplyDeleteThanks Ans. Angus was a great boy and I know you understand exactly what I've been feeling. And yes, Reuben is a good boy but he isn't Jack - nor do I want him to be. I think I fell in love with him about a week or so ago. I was enjoying him but at arm's length too. He burst through that wall though has won my battered heart. And I will give him lots of hugs for you.
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